Ithink I am going to have trouble again this Saturday when I pick up my Son. I called her to say that I am going to pick him up. I said that I would have my bro inlaw with me the whole time just to make her happy. I also asked for a copy of the order that said ONLY my bro inlaw can be the ride. She got pissed off because she know it does not exist. I went to the court and looked through my records and could not find this order nor could the clerks there. I did find the latest one that said it could be any adult. Just like I told the cop the last visit but he chose to take her word for it. I also asked her why she would not let her ex and I go together with my son and his bro, she said that her ex was not allowed around my son. Thats odd I thought and asked what he did to be kept away? My son calls him dad too and he was ok when they were together. She got angry and started to curse me then said "just try to pick him up on Saturday" and hung up on me! This can only mean trouble! I call the police to see if they could listen on the phone to her threatening me. The cop told me just to tape it for court. I asked if this was legal and he said it is so I guess I’ll have to do it. It is the only was to get the "proof". The court may choose not to allow me to play it though but I will still have it for the future.
I long for the day when all this is settled so I can be a better father for my Son. My ex knows I could do a better job right now but refuses to admit it. She needs some serious help. One day she’ll realize it but it will be too late. I do not wish our son to hate his mom but if things continue this way he will. I hope she gets help soon. There is a lot that I can not write about at this time. When I can I will…tom g