Fathers Day is fast approaching and i am trying to decide if i am going to my Fathers grave. I have never been able to go because it brings up too many feeling and emotions. My Mom is right next to his along w/ other relatives and friends. Now that I have a Son it seems to make me feel more obligated to force myself to go. Even though I know he can’t "hear" me, I feel like my Dad is upset that i have not come to see him. I know its weird but thats how i feel. I still need to figure out how to answer my Son when he asked about his other Grandfather(my Dad). I’ll have a few more years to figure this one out.