There is two sides to every story my side, her side and the truth. I agree 100%. I was just thinking about this trying to figure HOW I can write "her" side of the story. Maybe Mandi or Han Cholo can explain how this is done. It seems imposible to me. I can only write the "story" from two "sides" my side and the truth. I have done all that I can to invite her to comment if she find anything she diagrees with and guess what? She does not because as she herself said to me she can’t find anything that is not true. What more can I say about her "side". I wonder exactly what mandi and han cholo guy expects me to do, MAKE her give her "side". I have never forced her to do anything before and I can’t start now just because a few people are suspicious.
They are saying that I have left a lot of questions but do not ask any questions themselves. I would gladly and honestly answer them. May be not here on my Space but I would satisfy their desire to know more. I do not want my Space to become a Soap Opra Or a bash-the-ex.
I also find it odd that they do not ask why my ex did not show for court twic? One for custody that she filed. Or how can a mother have so many "dads"for the same Son. They Must agree with these actions on her part i guess.
Again I will say this blog is for my side and the truth. These are the only sides I can write from. If anyone wants her side or input they’ll have to find out who she is and ask her because i can’t give it.
I’ll be waiting for mandi and han cholor to answere to MY question "how can I give her side of the story?".
I won’t hod my breathe.
Another thing while I am in this mood, I put my life here, things that most people would never have the nerve to write about. Every entry I go out on a limb. I do not mind negative comments but these are from people who want to critisize what others write about but are to ashamed to write about their own life for fear of the same thing they dish out to others, critisism.
I do not use my Space to get "pitty" or "sympathy". If were to write everything they want then it would seem like I was looking for it. I choose not to tell what my problems are because this Sppace is not about me. it is about my struggles with my ex and visits with my Son. I have rarley said anything about my disabllities because I am ashamed of it. All of my life I have prided my self on my ability to work. Now that I can not I feel useless sometimes. It troubles me to hear people say that they know some one with the same problems and they work. With this kind of thinking no one would qualify for ssi because some one with no arms or legs could, if pushed, could get a job as a paper weight. (no disrespect to those with this problem). These people are just misinformed and I guess I’ll have to leave it at that…tom g