My Son Logan has been getting upset when I have to take him home, sometimes he cries. I have to hear about it from my ex because she swears I am trying to "turn him against her". She expect me to make it seem like I enjoy dropping him off. It is hard because I get sad too. How can I make it a good thing to go back to her when he enjoys being with me so much.
She interrogates him too, every little thing she disagrees with I am expected to just stop because it is her demands. I give him 100% of my attention when he is with me and when he goes home he gets very little attention from his mom let alone the guy she is with. He think sometimes I am going to go away too. I tell to remember way, way back as far as he can, and he remembers me being there throughout all the other guys who left. He knows them all by name and I assure him that I will always be there.
My ex flips out because I bring the other guyssss up. She incapable of understanding how I am only trying to reassure him, not make him think she is bad with relationships. He figured that one out himself long ago, sadly by her own doing not mine.
She also hates that we play PC games together because he ask her to play with her and she won’t. I stead of telling the truth that she doesn’t want to, she make it out to be some horrible thing and that I am so bad for letting him and I have something we both enjoy in common.
I would never make her look bad but I wont’ make myself look bad only to make her look good. I wish she would just let us have our time and stop making a big deal out of nothing…..tom g