P.F.A now too!

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On top of all that has happened this week now I have a pfa (protection from abuse) order against me now too. And I still do not know what was said against me! I think I will get my atty involved because things are getting out of hand. He will deal with all this crap for me. I need to take some time off for a few day to figure out what to do about my visits. I hurts me to fight so hard to be in his life only to be locked up for it.
the only thing I did was tried to tape her interference with my visits. I found the legal code related to what I did. Was I wrong to do what I did? Read for yourself below.
I will be back though I may not be allowed to write about most of what this Space is about. But then maybe I need to find and write about some of the positive things going on in my life. I will have to think to come up with these though, hence the few day away. 

§ 2402. Interception of communications generally; divulging contents of communications, violations of chapter.

(a) Prohibited acts. — Except as specifically provided in this chapter or elsewhere in this Code no person shall:

(1) Intentionally intercept, endeavor to intercept, or procure any other person to intercept or endeavor to intercept any wire, oral or electronic communication;

(2) Intentionally disclose or endeavor to disclose to any other person the contents of any wire, oral or electronic communication, knowing or having reason to know that the information was obtained through the interception of a wire, oral or electronic communication in violation of this chapter; or

(3) Intentionally use or endeavor to use the contents of any wire, oral or electronic communication, knowing or having reason to know that the information was obtained through the interception of a wire, oral or electronic communication in violation of this chapter.

(b) Penalties for violation of subsection (a). — Any person who violates subsection (a) of this section shall be guilty of a class E felony and be fined not more than $10,000.

(c) Lawful acts. — It is lawful:

(1) For an operator of a switchboard or an officer, employee or agent of a provider of wire or electronic communication service whose facilities are used in the transmission of wire or electronic communication to intercept, disclose or use such communication in the normal course of employment while engaged in any activity that is necessarily incident to the rendition of such person’s service or to the protection of the rights or property of the provider of that service, except that a provider of wire communications service to the public may not utilize service observing or random monitoring except for mechanical or service quality control checks.

(2) For a provider of wire or electronic communication service, its officers, employees and agents, landlords, custodians or other persons to provide information, facilities or technical assistance to persons authorized by federal or State law to intercept wire, oral, or electronic communications or to conduct electronic surveillance, if the provider, its officers, employees or agents, landlord, custodian or other specified person has been provided with a court order signed by an authorizing judge directing the provision of information, facilities or technical assistance.

a. An order as prescribed by this paragraph shall set forth the period of time during which the provision of the information, facilities or technical assistance is authorized and specify the information, facilities or technical assistance required.

b. A provider of wire or electronic communication service, its officers, employees or agents, or landlord, custodian or other specified person may not disclose the existence of any interception or surveillance or the device used to accomplish the interception or surveillance with respect to which the person has been furnished an order under this paragraph, except as may otherwise be required by legal process and then only after prior notification to the judge who granted the order, if appropriate, or the Attorney General of this State or the Attorney General’s designee. Any unauthorized disclosure shall render the person liable for compensatory damages.

c. No cause of action shall lie in any court against any provider of wire or electronic communication service, its officers, employees or agents, or landlord, custodian or other specified person for providing information, facilities, or assistance in accordance with the terms of a court order issued pursuant to this chapter.

(3) For an investigative or law-enforcement officer acting in a criminal investigation or any other person acting at the prior direction and under the supervision of an investigative or law-enforcement officer in such investigation pursuant to a court order issued by the Superior Court pursuant to § 2407 of this title to intercept a wire, oral or electronic communication in order to provide evidence of the commission of the offenses including racketeering, murder, kidnaping, gambling, robbery, bribery, extortion, dealing in narcotic drugs or dangerous drugs, dealing in central nervous system depressant or stimulant drugs, controlled substances or counterfeit controlled substances, prison escape, jury tampering, stalking, any felony involving risk of physical injury to a victim or any conspiracy or solicitation to commit any of the foregoing offenses or which may provide evidence aiding in the apprehension of the perpetrator of any of the foregoing offenses.

(4) For a person to intercept a wire, oral or electronic communication where the person is a party to the communication or where one of the parties to the communication has given prior consent to the interception, unless the communication is intercepted for the purpose of committing any criminal or tortious act in violation of the constitutions or laws of the United States, this State or any other state or any political subdivision of the United States or this or any other state.

I was the ONE person to the comm. who gave prior consent!!


I may not reply to all comments but I do thank every one for them.

I’ll be back soon…tom g

9 Replies to “P.F.A now too!”

  1. If you need to talk to someone call on me. I am always here and I have dealt with this too but with my Ex’s Girlfriend and Like I said if you need to talk I am here to listen.Heather

  2. Hey Tom, I recently went through a divorce/custody battel of my own. It is so sad for the kids. I wish your ex wife would step back and see what she is doing to your son. I have a son who does not see his father. Not by our choice but his fathers. I see what this does to my son on a daily basis. He wants so bad to have a relationship with his dad. You know all the money that is spent in court by her could better be used to support your son. It just makes me sick that he is getting the short end of this all the way around. Take care and I wish you luck. For your son’s sake do not give up. He will see when he gets older who fought for him.

  3. That is crazy. That law up there does not say much to me but I am pretty sure it is perficatly legal to record someone so that is not technically harassment. However since you said it is a womnas state. That basically means that anything that she says they will believe. I have seen this a lot growing up. My parents used to fight and no matter what my mom did to him and he did back it would always be MY DAD to go to jail. Or to be forced to leave for the night or whatever. Now only once was it that my mom had to leave and this was because the cops did not want to arresst my step dad and he got to stay because it was HIS MOMS house but other than that it is basically "What she says goes until you can prove otherwise" So you will go to jail every time she says something until you can get to court to prove differently. Sorry, it does suck but that is the way it works.

  4. hi tom, i cannot believe how complicated your situation is. i am glad you have a lawyer to sort things out for you. i am not writing as often as i used to so nor do i get a chance to post comments as much as before so don’t feel like you have to apologize. regarding those movies i had mentioned, they are both foreign with subtitles, although you don’t really need them. i hope you get to see your son soon – bunny

  5. God, Tom. Your ex sounds like a vindictive b***h. You have to fight harder than ever before, now. She will never give up, no matter how dormant her feelings seem at the time. The only thing she can control in her life, it seems, is the contact between you and your son. Do Not Give Up! Logan is totally worth it! Fight her tooth and nail, karma is a b***h, too.Jolie

  6. Have your attorney deal with ALL of these issues. That is what he is there for. That way you will not do anything illegal that will jeopardize your visitation with your son.Blessings,Sabine

  7. ~ Geesh~ I just thought I would stop by to say hi….I didnt know that you had such turmoil going on still. I am very sorry………..Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts.Stop by my site & try to smile……..Remember……"This too shall pass"Julie

  8. Just stopping by from Jolie’s space. I can’t believe the trouble your ex is putting you through or the fact you can be arrested but not told what for!! What goes around, comes around and sooner or later she will get hers. You are one strong person to be able to put up with all this. I would definately hire an atty that specializes in father’s rights. Good Luck! Tiff

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