Today my ex-wife called to say we had to talk. She told me her boyfriend was going ti get her out of his house. When I asked why she said it was all his fault. He wanted to move his mew woman in. YEAH RIGHT, my gut tells me it was her who ruined it. Now my son has no home, no bed of his own, no bro to play w/daily, and no dad of any kind to be around.
She told me we need to work out our problems so I can have my Son more. Now its OK, now that SHE need more freedom to roam.(to hook dad #4-5 for my Son) I need to move out of here to get more I want him to have his own room and thing too. I dint want him to know my home now. It is not the best place for him. Even though there are many kids his own age here they are used to things the way they are around here. (cops, fights arguments, and other crimes like that) I want him to feel secure and safe. I hope to be able to give I’m a permanent home. His mom can come and go as she pleases, visit him or not any time day or night. She can have all the freedom she can handle as long as our son does not see her true nature. She is his mom and I don’t want him to know how she can be.
My ex said she is going to start looking for an apt. That a joke she could not pull her own weight with the last guys help, alone she’ll never have her own anything. Having something herself would leave her to vulnerable. If things do not work out OK she won’t have any to put the blame on.
I have been ting a lot about this today. I have too many ideas and things I wish I could do now but I will have to hang in there a bit longer and things may just go my way as far as me & my Son are concerned…tom g