Yesterday I went to Family Court to file papers to redo the visitation & custody asap. I was up all night (again) and got there as soon as they opened. While i was driving in the parking garage, a strange vehicle was tailgating me. I found a spot, pulled in and next to me, the tailgater pulls in. Out pops my Ex. She starts to ask why I am driving w/no license. I told that I got that worked out. She kept asking tons of questions that I could not answer. I haven’t been writing about my "plans" so she does not know. Her old b.f is filing for custody of his son(my son’s bro) and now won’t let the boys visit because he filed. She is a cruel heartless person. No matter what their problems she should NEVER let any thing come between my son and his bro. She was trying hard to get me to argue w/her. I was to smart and not in the mood for it. I just got in my car and left her yelling and screaming in the parking garage. I had to pay two dollars for 10 minutes of parking but staying would have landed me in jail.
It sucks that my son now has so many people who he will have to visit his bro, step dad, mom and me. He wont know where to call home! I wish he could stay w/ me for most of the time so he won’t have to see another bad breakup and have to get used to new "dad" and bros and sisters. It would be me & him. I would have no problem w/equal time with his step dad and bro. I would love to have his bro over for visit w/me & my son.
I am having a hard time finding a place though. I might have to just get an apartment. I hate it because it would be like throwing money out the window. I have to now get ready to go to the court house…again…tom g