My Monday!

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Today I helped a friend out setting up his computer and cable modem. It took about 2 hours because he had a new desk in a box he asked me to put together while I was there. He could not believe I had it done in about 15 minutes. It was just a very basic computer desk.
 
People sometimes do not think about the info I need when I set up these things, like user names and passwords. They tell me to just use "what ever" for them. I hope them remember where they put the paper I wrote it down on.
If they loose it they can always call me, I have it.
 
They are new to the whole computer and INTERNET thing too. I had to go over the basics and I know it will not be long before they have there typing away on there own Windows Live Space. 
 
Tuesday (today) I have to take my Son to the Dr’s around 5:00pm. I will pick him up from school at 3 to hang out for a bit before. We’ll get a bit to eat and maybe throw the football at the park until 5.
 
Well, that’s about it for now…tom g

11 Replies to “My Monday!”

  1. I JUST WANTED TO INTRODUCE MYSELF AS IT IS ALMOST 3AM…AND WHILE I WAS SEARCHING FOR WINDOWS LIVE I CAME ACROSS SPACES (IVE NEVER SEEN IT BEFORE) AND FOUND YOU…IVE ONLY READ BITS OF YOUR ENTRIES…AND DECIDED TO CREATE MY OWN SPACE AND HAVE YOU AS A FRIEND…YOU ARE THE FIRST PERSON I HAVE EVER BLOGGED TO…ITS BEEN YEARS SINCE MY DIVORCE, SIX TO BE EXACT, AND I KNOW SO WELL HOW YOU MUST FEEL…IVE LONGED TO SHARE WITH SO MANY OTHERS WHO HAVE BEEN DOWN OUR ROAD…MY SON IS SIX NOW, HIS MOM AND I PARTED SOON AFTER HE WAS BORN…WE FINALLY ENDED OUR BITTER FEUD IN COURT AFTER FIVE LONG YEARS JUST THIS DECEMBER…I CANT BEGIN TO TELL YOU THE STRUGGLES AND SUFFERING NOT TO MENTION THE MONEY SPENT WITH LAWYERS…IF ONLY I COULD OFFER YOU AND OTHERS LIKE US HOPE…THAT THERE IS A GREENER GRASS, A BRIGHTER DAY…A NEW BEGINNING…I HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH MY BEAUTIFUL SON AND I FINALLY GOT FULL CUSTODY!…THE FIGHT WAS MINE TO WIN…IT WASNT ALWAYS LIKE THIS THOUGH…DADS JUST DONT SEEM TO GET THE RESPECT THEY DESERVE AS A PARENT…THE COURT SYSTEM SEEMS TO BE ONESIDED FOR MOMS…EVEN WHEN THEY LIE!!! THAT NEEDS TO CONTINUE TO CHANGE!  I AM BLESSED TO HAVE TASTED THE BITTER, THE SOUR BECAUSE I NOW KNOW THE SWEET AND FOUND LOVE…I REMARRIED ONE YEAR AGO AND HAVE AN AWESOME FAMILY…MY WIFE TOO COMES FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE WHICH ALSO BROUGHT FORTH A SON…I NEVER IMAGINED WHAT LIFE WOULD AND COULD BE LIKE BECAUSE OF EVERYTHING THAT HAS HAPPENED…I REMEMBER ONLY HOW I ALIENATED MOST OF FRIENDS BECAUSE I FELT EMBARASSED… WHEN I REALLY NEEDED THEM MOST…I REMEMBER HOW BITTER AND ANGRY I WAS ESPECIALLY BECAUSE THE SYSTEM WAS SO CORRUPT AND SCREWING ME…I WISH YOU AND ALL THE DADS LIKE US THE BEST IN LIFE…BECAUSE WED DO ANYTHING FOR OUR BOYS…ALWAYS, ANYTIME…CHERISH THE MOMENTS BECAUSE THE GROW UP SO FAST!!! I OFTEN FIND MYSELF LOOKING AT PICTURES WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER AND I AM SO AMAZED…YOUVE DONE SOMETHING GOOD HERE…I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.

  2. That is nice to help your friends like that.  I guess I am one of those people that need help like that.  Your friends are lucky to have you!

  3. I have lived your plite and can remember the feelings by your coments that I went through losing my home but keeping three Boy’s together while the Ex-Wife wentout drinking for a year. I won custody of my three boy’s (1 child was not my biological son) and I did the paperwork myself (Pro-Se). first you need to find out about a parental evaluation or a Guardium ad littem for your Son in any future court issue’s She brings up. But remember the most important thing: Your Son should never Cry about either home he is at, He should feel love at Both. Greg

  4. Hello my friend, I stop in from time to time to read your updates. You know when msn featured your site that is how I got my start. So I will always remain a loyal blog friend. Why is your son going to the doctors? Well write me when you can…

  5. Tom,
     
    Just wanted to take a moment and commend you for taking a stance.  It’s hard to do that as a single dad.  The system is designed to stack the cards against guys like you and me.  You are fighting a fight your son will be proud of.  You are setting up the best of all scenarios in the face of worst of all scenarios.  One day, I hope you get to hear your son, as a young man, being asked the question "Who was the biggest Influence in your life?"  and for your son to say, proudly, simply and without hesitation "My Father".  This is what you are setting up, so keep up the fight and never stop fighting.

  6. How are things going?  Just wanted to say hello and tell you how lucky your son is to have a dad like you.  Keep the fight and he will never forget how much you love him.

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  8. Hi there Tom!  I know its been almost a year since I was last on and I am sorry been very busy.  Thanks for the well wishes on the new baby.  If ya get some time ya should come over and see the new pics I posted.  Have so much to tell everyone.  Lots have happened.  Talk at ya soon.Hope You and Logan are doing great.~Angie

  9. Hi, it’s been a while since my last visit.  Wishing you a Happy Easter and everything else that comes along.  Take care.

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