I just started this blog to see if I can get responses to issues about how fathers are being "forced" out of family by some ruthlessly greedy, selfish women. It is only my opinion.
Is it just me, or are the laws changing to make things "more efficeient" in the family court systems? States seem not to be as concerned about issues as they are about rushing parents through. The least objectionable way to do that is to give more weight to what ever the mother says using statistics as a reason. The father is forced to prove that something didn’t happen this is often impossible. Most of the tImes in family court DE, I filed the for the hearing and barley got to speak. She told many lies that I was asked to prove they were lies. when I asked why she doesn’t have to prove i’m liying, the judge gigles and says "Delaware is a womens state". They wonder way there are so many fatherless families in De and accross this country. Many fathers give up, and I can understand why.
I will never give up!! I didn’t grow up with my parent. I was only with them until I was 8 years old. I didn’t re-united with them until I was 18 years old.
My mother died in ’91 & my father in ’97, and I made promises to them both days before they died that I would always be in my kids every day life. They never got the chance to meet my son. He will never know them.
My son was born in ’99 & he is my WORLD. He is the only male to carry on my family name.
When I got married, I was careful not to do something to destroy my family. It never crossed my mind that my wife would betray me.
Her greed and selfishness caused us to seperate. Nothing I could say or do could have changed her mind. The state doesn’t offer any help keeping families together. They dive down like vultures after the damage is done. They say, "the state can’t FORCE her into family counceling". the state only applies FORCE to keep families apart. This is shameful !
States should do every thing to keep families toghter, treat each case individually without "statistics", and have truly equal justice by giving it to fathers.
The courts need to concider the reasons the family was broken up. They love to hear the man was violent, cheated, or such, but they never want to hear that the wome cheated and didn’t even try to hide it. Her new "man" would call the house and I had to ignore it. If i didn’t she threatend to call the police and tell them that I hit her ao somthing. Knowing they would believe her, I decided to not to even try to fix things.The judge wouldn’t even let mention any of her adultry. Even though it was relevant to her nature. He didn’t think it was too bad that my son had three different "dads" in 4 years. I bet he would if he were in my shoes.
Well, if any one can relate to this sad story please respond.