Sometimes when I do not get to see my Son for awhile, he starts to call me by my 1st name, "Tom". That would not be to bad but he also starts to call my ex’s boy friend of 3-4 years, "daddy". When I asked him what he ate for breakfast, he said, "my dad made me pancakes". Is it wrong to correct him? The guy does a good job & takes better care of him than his mother. Last Saturday when he said that, I said "you mean Mot (the guys nickname) made you pancakes". Today I was thinking about this alot. I feel like I did something wrong by letting my feelings confuse him a bit. I hope not. I don’t get mad at all. I just feel left out of his life & yeah, jealous that this guy was "allowed" by his mom to play the role of his dad. I have to think about this one more!!