It’s not! To tell the truth some one must be willing to LISTEN to what you say. That’s what makes it hard to be truthful, not many poeple are willing to consider they might be wrong. Listening is becoming a lost art. People should be able to put themselv’es in the other persons "shoes" and walk a mile or two to see how they "fit". Feeling someones elses pain is the best way to understand the other persons point of view. …..t g